阳光早餐 | 冷静后的在意
The Light of Life
Sunshine Breakfast
生命之光 · 阳光早餐
过刺激的生活，能不能安稳？我们需要问问自心。
冷静、长远，跟一时冲动，完全不一样。我们冲动的时候，一时情绪的时候，只会看到大方美好的一面，平静下来的生活细节问题就根本看不见。像喝了酒一样，仗义大方都来了，但在酒醒之后，连最小的事都可能会在意计较。
比如人相处在一起久了，往往就会在意谁多看了谁一眼了，谁对谁好了，谁跟谁打招呼了……这些很小很小的事都会在意计较。
要是一味激情浪漫的生活，就像电影里那样，但当面对现实生活的平淡琐碎时就会感到无味、苦、不安稳，人就会受不了这种落差。
实际我们最终面临的都是要解决自己日常生活中的问题与习惯。长久地看、短期地看、热恼地看、冷静地看，多角度地去观察后，再去做事情就会如实下来。
冷静后的生活会出现一些在意的地方，一定要问问这些在意的地方自己能否面对与承担，那就会给我们带来自觉的机会与利益。
来自慈法法师的『生命之光 · 阳光早餐』
2018年10月由Robin整理
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Robin 编后语
在跟随师父慈法法师学习佛法的过程中，常有抑制不住的感动与受益，我真诚地愿意对同参道友尽一份供养的心，尽可能地把师父随机开示的记录整理分享给大家。记录的内容主要是日常生活中出现的某一个角度的问题，希望我们能够举一反三、触类旁通地去观察、觉悟整个人生，依法唤起对本净本具美妙的缘起作用，使我们的人生变得美好与丰富多彩。
What do we care about
when we calm down?
Does living an exciting life bring us peace and stability? This is a question we should always ask ourselves.
Keeping calm with a long-term perspective differs so much from acting impulsively.
When we are emotional, we can only see something great and exciting, but may be blinded to the potential problems after we calm down. It is like that, some people may seem generous when they are drunk yet fuss over trivial things when they are sober.
For instance, when people get along with each other for a while, they might start to care about trifles, which may trigger conflicts, jealousy, or frustration.
If we blindly live a passionate and romantic life just like in the movies, we will not be able to accept the gap when we face the reality, and the life will get boring, painful and unstable.
Eventually, it is all about facing and solving our own problems and habits in our daily life. If we can observe these problems from different perspectives, long-term or short-term, emotionally or calmly, things will be dealt with properly.
When we calm down, we will find the spots that we really are concerned about. We should ask ourselves if we can afford the consequences or not, which leads to self-awareness.
Light of Life
Sunshine Breakfast
Editor's Note
While following our Master Cifa and learning Buddhism from him, very often I cannot help being moved by his targeted instructions and benefit a lot from them. Now, with a sincerely offering heart for you my fellow practitioners, I’d like to try as much as I can to share his instructions with all of you that I have recorded and sorted out. These series of records covered a number of problems from our daily life. Each problem is reflected from a specific perspective. I hope that we can learn by analog to observe and enlighten our whole life, so as, according to dharma, to arouse us to start using the inherent pure Buddha-nature as our wonderful arising condition, and make our life more beautiful, richer and more colorful.
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